Seriously, this is one of the most destructive behaviors that we engage in on a daily basis that guarantees that we live a shitty life. Complaining about things and doing absolutely nothing to change the situation that you are complaining about. What a bloody waste of time!
I used to be a gold metal complainer. The only thing I loved more than complaining was food lol. And when I stopped complaining, my life started to change.
Complaining is toxic. It’s toxic to you and to those around you to whom you complain. Complaining lowers your vibration and it can infect all those to whom you’ve complain to and lower their vibration too. Then they go out and complain and infect others and so forth. It’s a vicious cycle.
If something is worth complaining about, if it bothers you that much then get off your ass and do something about it! If you are complaining and have no intention of taking action to change the situation you are complaining about then shut up and focus your energy elsewhere!
I was informed that the Canadian Government was spending 1.25 million dollars on refurbished computers for new Syrian Immigrants to our country and the person sharing this “news” with me was so upset about it. “How dare the government give computers to these immigrants when some Canadians don’t even have one?” And other such bile.
Personally, I do not have a problem with spending that money on computers for new immigrants. I don’t even have a problem with the fact that Syrian Immigrants have relocated to Canada. Not just because I think that dividing people on this planet based on invisible lines we’ve drawn on a map of the globe is beyond stupid, which I do. And not only because it’s stupid to be upset about immigrants relocating to “our country” and getting “free computers on the tax payer’s dime” when some “actual Canadians” don’t own one (I mean seriously, you are born into this great country with all the bloody resources you could want at your finger tips and you still haven’t managed to make enough of your life to buy a computer? That’s a whole different conversation right there!) But the main reason why I don’t have a problem with it, is because nothing changed in my life when this 1.25 million was spent.
I didn’t check my bank balance and see that money was missing. The RCMP didn’t kick down my door and make off with my Mac Book. And my boss didn’t say “Sorry, but you are not getting paid this week because we are using this money to buy computers” None of that happened. Nothing about that purchase changed my life.
What changed my life is having to listen to someone complain about it, while having absolutely no intention of doing anything about the situation that upset them so much. What is the point of complaining? How did that better your life? How did that change anything?
If you actually cared about what you were complaining about you should get up and take real action. Did women get rights by just sitting around and complaining about the state of things? No. They stood up and took action.
So unless you plan on taking action on what you are complaining about, then don’t waste, your time and energy on pointless toxic complaining, and most certainly don’t waste mine.
And if you feel the need to lower your vibration and live in that negativity then don’t come near me. I’ve got better things to do with my time.
So, if you do one thing today to change your life for the better it’s stop all your complaining. Do so and you will see some amazing changes in your life.